Now they are fighting for your love and declare to feel you, to condition; next, you take a seat on a random bench and see them in love. What can you do but be glad for unions and walk your way. You might not understand anything, and it can bring pain from the display. This is not the closure I wanted, but it´s one of the most classic. It´s highly recommended to treat the people you confess to love and who you present as family with consideration, and to protect their feelings by exposing the truth rather than showing them the telenovela, which will probably affect them for a long time just because it's so shocking.
Life can be wonderful as long as emotionally stable people surround you. But when this pattern of instability repeats itself, life becomes difficult, painful, indifferent, or lonely.
How many people have already experienced the situation of catching their partner in a display of affection, whether on a bench, in a park, at a party, in their own bed, etc.? The most difficult part is when they insist on explaining... the extra bitter taste of manipulation, unnecessary from the start towards someone who knows you.
Emotionally speaking, it's a shock that we only feel after a certain level of emotional conditioning. Seeing people kiss is pleasant under normal circumstances, but when you catch your own partner in such a display, the reaction can be different. It's the reaction to a traumatic event: trust has been broken and intimacy wounded.
In any case, two people are two people, so we take a step back and wish them well, or even don´t disturb them at all, as I do, even if the breakup was unfair. Totally vanish. It wasn´t me to insist; I make efforts to avoid, therefore no obligation what´s or ever has left.
This situation is likely to repeat itself indefinitely, as immature people get close, insist, maybe for months or years, just to superpose, and they represent the majority.
We interact and maintain socializing if we feel good, respected, and included. Such an unfortunate event has none of the required elements above.
Summer is here, and empaths are busy feeling the breeze. These kinds of intercalated socializing events might feel uncomfortable, but in essence this scenario is boring. If it brings no orgasmic atmosphere, better leave the scene, and if it insists with extra explanations in parallel with the subject, erase the number, don´t look back. Life is wonderful when feeling respected, the base condition for peace and feminine multiple orgasms, and events like these are just disturbing towards closing the dopaminergic natural circuit. We don´t afford that. Yet, those who are boring us with conditioning and do this should afford to pay for vacations, so that the cheating display at least goes away faster, and we can also enjoy life, not only the cheaters.
Make development and work opportunities, vacations, and all immigrant women's rights satisfied, so we might also feel pleasure, not only the energy suckers. Anyways, after such an event, cheaters seek redemption, and if you put the song is not enough...they want to cry on your lap...and that´s the last thing anyone needs. Pity feelings help nobody. If you want that much to sit on my lap, at least do it for more delightful reasons. Time is expensive; we have better things to do. Unless socializing like this, we don´t get bored in our own company, no worries.
Safe and success, energy vampires!
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